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Welcome! I’m So Glad You’re Here
Heart-Centered, Nature-Inspired Coaching to Create the Life of Your Dreams.
Specialized Support for Lesbians, Nonbinary, Queer People & Allies.

"It's time to shine your light."
I’m Jen Solin – Heart-Centered Coach
Coaching is my passion. Being with you on your journey is an honor. I create safe, loving containers where you can show up exactly as you are, without judgment, with bucket loads of empathy and acknowledgement for the journey you have been on.
My goal is to support you to take aligned action to move through fears, disrupt unhelpful patterns, rediscover your inner wisdom, and take clear, empowered steps toward the life, breakthroughs, and relationships you’re seeking.
Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, ready to make wiser choices in love, learning to embrace all of who you are, or stepping into a new chapter of your life, my coaching offers a compassionate space to recover joy and create the connections you long for.
As a later in life lesbian, it's been so helpful to work with Jen. Being able to role play conversations with her related to a woman I like and get clarity on what I want to communicate to her, in a way that honors my needs and worth is incredibly helpful in moving me into the relationship vision I have with a woman for my life.
MARIA
Jen helped me see that I have made more progress than I give myself credit for. Her questions inspired me to develop an action plan for having a "wing woman" to support me while dating along with other lesbian friends who have my back as I do the courageous thing of dating again in my 70s. I don't have to do this alone anymore.
MARGE
It was so helpful to be meeting with Jen while going through my divorce and the attacks from my soon to be ex wife. She helped me ground, console parts of myself that were deeply wounded, and be able to make a plan for my day and the week ahead.
CARMEN
I felt unbelievably seen and affirmed by Jen. She helped me do the inner work to get myself out dating again and put my profile back online after a heartbreaking end to a toxic relationship with a woman I was very much in love with.
JULIE
Jen held a safe space for me that allowed me to release a lot of stored pain and confusion. I came to her with so many mixed emotions-sadness, disappointment, grief, confusion over the ending of my relationship, especially the lingering questions and lack of a conversation for resolution and understanding. The exercises we did helped me release a lot of pent -up emotion and painful feeling and I felt lighter and more centered. I’m grateful for her empathy and skill in helping me find this cathartic release.
LISA
It made a world of difference to be having a coaching session with Jen right after a trigger that caused a kind of primal panic in me. Her calm energy supported me to regulate my nervous system. Out of our time together, I created an accountability buddy to reach out to in times of distress, knowing that as I detach from this woman, I am going to be dealing with some hard moments. .
PATRICIA
Jen reflects back with conciseness and creative poetry in her sessions. I feel an abundance of affirmation, empathy and acceptance from her. She reminds me that this journey I am on is beautiful and sacred, enhanced by being present and connected with other people who are on similar transcendence journeys.
SHERRY
Jen has the rare combination of having compassion, empathy, practical skills, spiritual intuition, soul wisdom, and a wicked good sense of humor. She patiently listened to all that I said and what I did not say, and guided me through a very complicated lesbian divorce process. She is a Lesbian and Queer Women’s Coaching Goddess!!
ELIZABETH
MY SERVICES
Discover Coaching with Jen
Coaching with Jen is a journey of self-discovery, clarity, and transformation. Through deep conversations, guided reflections, and personalized strategies, she helps you navigate life’s challenges, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and move toward the life you truly want.
Consult
Free 20 Minute Clarity Call
You may already be ready to jump in. If not, and you'd like to meet up for a dialogue about how we can work together, send an email and let's explore what you're looking for...
Coaching
1 on 1 Coaching
I know it’s a big deal to be looking for a coach to support you. Congratulations on knowing you are worth it and putting the focus back on you.
I'm looking forward to learning about you and exploring the ways we can work together...
Writing
Inspired Profile Writing
In our inspired profile writing sessions, we’ll work together to untap your biggest desires and the essence of what you most want to project and attract into your life right now. By the end of our time together, you'll have a profile you love that powerfully filters in and filters out what you most want to manifest...
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Jen’s Gems
When Life Feels Like a Cliff, Find the Creek
When my dear friend and colleague Nicki and I were sitting on the edge of a creek in Indian Canyon in Palm Springs, we shared one of those rare, precious pauses ...
Slow Snorkel into the Lesbian Sea
Until a couple Sundays ago, I had never explored the full length of the pier in front of one of the beaches near my home in South Florida. Just twelve minutes ...
Fallen Out Of A Love Nest? Gentle Support for Lesbian Heartbreak
This weekend, my daughter and I wandered through beaches, mangroves, and natural springs along Florida’s West Coast — soaking in birdsong and salt air. At Hone ...