Description
Manatee Lesbian Love & Connection Cards
A gentle deck to help you slow down, get curious, and choose with care.
These are the questions I wish I’d had in my pocket, and the ones I invite my coaching clients to engage with, prompts that soften the pace, and let intimacy unfold in a grounded, natural way.
They’re distilled from love’s lived-in wisdom (and a few spectacular missteps), my coaching practice and my work meeting weekly with hundreds of lesbian, queer women & nonbinary folx weekly at Conscious Girlfriend Academy.
Rooted in my Mom and Grandmothers’ gentle energy and heart-connected listening, this deck is a pocket compass for choosing with care and invites you to slow down, stay curious, and discover connections in dating, friendship, and community.
Like the gentle manatee, they invite a playful, unhurried pace: slow down, stay curious, and discover connection—in dating, friendship & community.
Created for lesbian, queer & nonbinary hearts—welcoming to all seeking deeper connection.
What it is
60 color-coded cards, each with 3 prompts (Opener → Values → Vibe), designed to spark honest, unhurried conversations—on dates, with partners, friends, or solo.
A few sample prompts
- First Encounters: What words would you use to describe the kind of relationship you’re looking for?
- Love & Past Relationships: What’s the biggest lesson or gift you took from a past relationship?
- Self-Knowledge: Which morning or evening rituals help you stay centered and grounded?
- Intimacy & Desire: Beyond chemistry, what matters just as much for you to feel connected?
- Dreams & Future: Describe a Sunday with a partner that would feel just right.
- Community & Consciousness: When life gets really hard, who or what do you call for guidance?
Why the Manatee
Manatees float where it’s warm, graze where it nourishes, and huddle when waters turn cold. Their unhurried way reminds us not to rush love. This deck carries that spirit into dating, friendship, and community.
What’s inside
- 6 categories, 10 cards each = 60 cards
💛 First Encounters & Connection • ❤️ Love & Past Relationships • 💚 Self-Knowledge & Resilience • 💗 Intimacy & Desire • 💙 Dreams & Future Visions • 💜 Community & Consciousness - 3 prompts per card arranged for ease: Opener → Values → Vibe
Ways to use: Pull 1 (light spark) • Pull 3 (deeper dive) • Choose a category (themed flow)
Cost & Shipping
- Price: $40 includes shipping within the U.S.
Shipping: Orders ship within 2 business days from Fort Lauderdale, FL. US only (for now). If you need an international shipment, email directly at support@jensolincoaching.com.
Tiny FAQ
- Who is it for? Created specifically for lesbians, queer women & nonbinary folks—and great for anyone who resonates with a gentle, curious approach to connection.
- Is there a guide? A mini how-to is included inside.
- How many cards & questions are there? There are 60 cards, 6 categories, with 3 questions on each card.
- Can I give this to somebody as a gift? Yes—add the recipient’s name + address in your payment note. We’re happy to send this to a loved one
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