Inspired Profile Writing
What is Inspired Profile Writing?
A supportive, heart-centered process to craft a dating profile that feels true, magnetic, and aligned with the love you’re calling in. Think of it as the most loving letter you’ve ever written to yourself, one that honors all of you and clearly invites the connection you want.
Inspired Profile Writing with Jen (2 sessions + support)
Together we’ll shape an authentic, compelling profile — safe, clear, and beautifully you—so the right people recognize themselves and the wrong ones swipe left.
This is for you if putting yourself out there brings up both excitement and nerves. I work with hundreds of lesbians, queer and nonbinary folks each week, and I can tell you, this is completely normal. I offer gentle, intuitive, skillful support to translate your voice into compelling, honest language, uplifting you and drawing in the kind of love you’re calling in.
What we’ll do (2 sessions + support)
Session 1 (60 min):
A guided deep-dive into your story, desires, values, boundaries, and the energy you want to invite in.
Between sessions:
I shape your draft with personalized edits, short emails, and brief voice notes—to refine tone, language, and pacing.
Session 2 (60 min):
We finalize your profile, plus where/when/how to share it and a dating strategy that fits your comfort and capacity.
What You'll Leave With
- A polished, authentic profile you love
- Clarity on what you’re seeking and how you want to show up
- A greater sense of safety, empowerment, grounded confidence and love of self
- A vision for gentle next steps for your dating journey
How Do I Get Started?
- Purchase & Schedule Your First Session
- Complete a short pre-questionnaire
- Session 1 → edits → Session 2
- Share your profile (when you’re ready)
What's The Investment?
Inspired Profile Writing (2×60 min + edits): $350
As a later in life lesbian, it's been so helpful to work with Jen. Being able to role play conversations with her related to a woman I like and get clarity on what I want to communicate to her, in a way that honors my needs and worth is incredibly helpful in moving me into the relationship vision I have with a woman for my life.
MARIA
Jen helped me see that I have made more progress than I give myself credit for. Her questions inspired me to develop an action plan for having a "wing woman" to support me while dating along with other lesbian friends who have my back as I do the courageous thing of dating again in my 70s. I don't have to do this alone anymore.
MARGE
It was so helpful to be meeting with Jen while going through my divorce and the attacks from my soon to be ex wife. She helped me ground, console parts of myself that were deeply wounded, and be able to make a plan for my day and the week ahead.
CARMEN
I felt unbelievably seen and affirmed by Jen. She helped me do the inner work to get myself out dating again and put my profile back online after a heartbreaking end to a toxic relationship with a woman I was very much in love with.
JULIE
Jen held a safe space for me that allowed me to release a lot of stored pain and confusion. I came to her with so many mixed emotions-sadness, disappointment, grief, confusion over the ending of my relationship, especially the lingering questions and lack of a conversation for resolution and understanding. The exercises we did helped me release a lot of pent -up emotion and painful feeling and I felt lighter and more centered. I’m grateful for her empathy and skill in helping me find this cathartic release.
LISA
It made a world of difference to be having a coaching session with Jen right after a trigger that caused a kind of primal panic in me. Her calm energy supported me to regulate my nervous system. Out of our time together, I created an accountability buddy to reach out to in times of distress, knowing that as I detach from this woman, I am going to be dealing with some hard moments. .
PATRICIA
Jen reflects back with conciseness and creative poetry in her sessions. I feel an abundance of affirmation, empathy and acceptance from her. She reminds me that this journey I am on is beautiful and sacred, enhanced by being present and connected with other people who are on similar transcendence journeys.
SHERRY
Jen has the rare combination of having compassion, empathy, practical skills, spiritual intuition, soul wisdom, and a wicked good sense of humor. She patiently listened to all that I said and what I did not say, and guided me through a very complicated lesbian divorce process. She is a Lesbian and Queer Women’s Coaching Goddess!!
ELIZABETH
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