Explore Coaching with Jen A week ago, in one of my favorite Florida springs, I found myself mesmerized by the fish drifting through t ...
Jen’s Gems
Lesbian Love Like a Ripe Papaya
I’ve thought a lot about papaya. In 1995, after a brutal, gut-wrecking bout of giardia in Baños de Agua Santa, Ecuador, the sisters I worked ...
The Coral Reef of Your Lesbian Life
Walking the ocean’s edge today, I picked up a piece of coral, two species, finger and star, fused together, something I hadn’t seen before. ...
Being On The Same Kind Of Wave
I’m a water lover and I often think in tides and currents. Sitting with a dear friend recently, I realized we’re riding very different water ...
Recovering Treasures After The Storm
The day after Hurricane Helene swept through, I walked down to the shoreline. I was stunned by the new shells scattered across the sand,colo ...
When Life Feels Like a Cliff, Find the Creek
When my dear friend and colleague Nicki and I were sitting on the edge of a creek in Indian Canyon in Palm Springs, we shared one of those r ...
Slow Snorkel into the Lesbian Sea
Until a couple Sundays ago, I had never explored the full length of the pier in front of one of the beaches near my home in South Florida. ...
Fallen Out Of A Love Nest? Gentle Support for Lesbian Heartbreak
This weekend, my daughter and I wandered through beaches, mangroves, and natural springs along Florida’s West Coast — soaking in birdsong an ...
Sacred Sloth-Like Sky View
I woke up to a sloth the other day. It was my first time really being with one in nature. I had seen them before in the Amazon, but only in ...








