The day after Hurricane Helene swept through, I walked down to the shoreline. I was stunned by the new shells scattered across the sand,colo ...
Jen’s Gems
When Life Feels Like a Cliff, Find the Creek
When my dear friend and colleague Nicki and I were sitting on the edge of a creek in Indian Canyon in Palm Springs, we shared one of those r ...
Slow Snorkel into the Lesbian Sea
Until a couple Sundays ago, I had never explored the full length of the pier in front of one of the beaches near my home in South Florida. ...
Fallen Out Of A Love Nest? Gentle Support for Lesbian Heartbreak
This weekend, my daughter and I wandered through beaches, mangroves, and natural springs along Florida’s West Coast — soaking in birdsong an ...
Sacred Sloth-Like Sky View On Your Life
I woke up to a sloth the other day. It was my first time really being with one in nature. I had seen them before in the Amazon, but only in ...
Holding Each Other in Rainbow Light
When I was in kindergarten our teacher invited us to do a show and tell. I had taken some time to consider what I wanted to do because the m ...
Lightening Your Lesbian Load
I saw this little one a few days ago on my morning walk. An ant, walking down the road, with a leaf piece about ten times their size, one o ...
Being Soft Shorelines For One Another
I’ve been thinking about shorelines lately. Last week, in utter exhaustion, in the midst of a virus, I took myself down to the beach, threw ...
Time To Celebrate The Late Bloomer, Baby Gay, All Coming Out Later in Lifers
Been thinking about late bloomers. Actually, I’ve been thinking about the term ‘late bloomer lesbian.' And how there’s a part ...