The limerence is over with the squirrels in my backyard. We were having a great time in our co-housing community, or so I thought. I had ...
Jen’s Gems
Lessons from Ani, The Anole, During The Cold Snap
I found Ani, the anole, this past Sunday — frozen. She was in the pile of sea grape leaves I was raking, her body turned brown, completel ...
The Mockingbird on the Plumeria Tree & the Song Beneath Your Story
I had just wrapped up an inspired profile writing session and was still taking in the resilience and shine this client had shared. I went fo ...
Have a Favorite Resting Spot?
In places like this, where the morning sun lands perfectly in the hammock in my back yard, I tend to slow down enough to let in deeper thoug ...
Lesbian Love Tips From Seagulls
Many of the people I work with have been out dating in what I often call the lesbian seas.They’re courageous. Open-hearted. Willing to love. ...
Catfish, Coaching & Clear Water
A week ago, in one of my favorite Florida springs, I found myself mesmerized by the fish drifting through that crystal-clear blue-green wate ...
Lesbian Love Like a Ripe Papaya
I’ve thought a lot about papaya. In 1995, after a brutal, gut-wrecking bout of giardia in Baños de Agua Santa, Ecuador, the sisters I worked ...
The Coral Reef of Your Lesbian Life
Walking the ocean’s edge today, I picked up a piece of coral, two species, finger and star, fused together, something I hadn’t seen before. ...
Being On The Same Kind Of Wave
I’m a water lover and I often think in tides and currents. Sitting with a dear friend recently, I realized we’re riding very different water ...








