Manatee Lesbian Love & Connection Cards
Manatee Lesbian Love & Connection Cards
A gentle deck of cards to help you slow down, get curious, and choose with care. Created with lesbians, queer & nonbinary hearts in mind, welcoming to all seeking deeper connection. Designed to spark unhurried conversations - on dates, with partners, friends, or solo.
What's Inside?
A full deck of 60 cards containing 180 meaningful prompts, organized into 6 categories:
💛 First Encounters & Connection • ❤️ Love & Past Relationships • 💚 Self-Knowledge & Resilience • 💗 Intimacy & Desire • 💙 Dreams & Future Visions • 💜 Community & Consciousness
Each card holds 3 layered questions arranged for ease: Opener → Values → Vibe
Ways to use: Pull 1 (light spark) • Pull 3 (deeper dive) • Choose a category (themed flow)
Origin of the Cards
These are the questions I wish I’d had in my pocket, and the ones I invite clients to explore, prompts that soften the pace and let intimacy unfold naturally. They grew from wisdom I’ve earned (and a few spectacular missteps), my coaching practice, and work with Conscious Girlfriend Academy. Rooted in my Mom and Grandmothers’ gentle questions and heart-connected listening, this deck is a pocket compass for choosing with care.
A Few Sample Prompts From Inside The Cards
- First Encounters: What words would you use to describe the kind of relationship you’re looking for?
- Love & Past Relationships: What’s the biggest lesson or gift you took from a past relationship?
- Self-Knowledge: Which morning or evening rituals help you stay centered and grounded?
- Intimacy & Desire: Beyond chemistry, what matters just as much for you to feel connected?
- Dreams & Future: Describe a Sunday with a partner that would feel just right.
- Community & Consciousness: When life gets really hard, who or what do you call for guidance?
What People Are Saying
"These cards are a fast track way to get to know a diverse group of people and challenge your initial assumptions about them. I would love to use these to as a conscious and intentional way to get to know someone I’m interested in."
"Great questions that call you into deeper conversations with your friends. Great to get to know someone better."
"These are the perfect get to know you game cards for friends, partners and all women who love women!"
"The cards very deep and thought provoking. I loved them all!"
"These are wonderful to play with friends at house parties, book clubs, lesbian gatherings, vacations, and road trips."
"Great for couples who want to do deep inner work!"
"I really enjoyed the questions on these cards. They invite deeper conversations and they're a great way to get to know someone better or to create connections in small or large groups in community."
Buy The Deck
Price: $40 includes shipping within the U.S.
Shipping: The first production will be available for shipping the last week of December 2025. Orders normally ship within 2 business days from Fort Lauderdale, FL. US only (for now). If you want an international shipment, email directly at support@jensolincoaching.com.
As a later in life lesbian, it's been so helpful to work with Jen. Being able to role play conversations with her related to a woman I like and get clarity on what I want to communicate to her, in a way that honors my needs and worth is incredibly helpful in moving me into the relationship vision I have with a woman for my life.
MARIA
Jen helped me see that I have made more progress than I give myself credit for. Her questions inspired me to develop an action plan for having a "wing woman" to support me while dating along with other lesbian friends who have my back as I do the courageous thing of dating again in my 70s. I don't have to do this alone anymore.
MARGE
It was so helpful to be meeting with Jen while going through my divorce and the attacks from my soon to be ex wife. She helped me ground, console parts of myself that were deeply wounded, and be able to make a plan for my day and the week ahead.
CARMEN
I felt unbelievably seen and affirmed by Jen. She helped me do the inner work to get myself out dating again and put my profile back online after a heartbreaking end to a toxic relationship with a woman I was very much in love with.
JULIE
Jen held a safe space for me that allowed me to release a lot of stored pain and confusion. I came to her with so many mixed emotions-sadness, disappointment, grief, confusion over the ending of my relationship, especially the lingering questions and lack of a conversation for resolution and understanding. The exercises we did helped me release a lot of pent -up emotion and painful feeling and I felt lighter and more centered. I’m grateful for her empathy and skill in helping me find this cathartic release.
LISA
It made a world of difference to be having a coaching session with Jen right after a trigger that caused a kind of primal panic in me. Her calm energy supported me to regulate my nervous system. Out of our time together, I created an accountability buddy to reach out to in times of distress, knowing that as I detach from this woman, I am going to be dealing with some hard moments. .
PATRICIA
Jen reflects back with conciseness and creative poetry in her sessions. I feel an abundance of affirmation, empathy and acceptance from her. She reminds me that this journey I am on is beautiful and sacred, enhanced by being present and connected with other people who are on similar transcendence journeys.
SHERRY
Jen has the rare combination of having compassion, empathy, practical skills, spiritual intuition, soul wisdom, and a wicked good sense of humor. She patiently listened to all that I said and what I did not say, and guided me through a very complicated lesbian divorce process. She is a Lesbian and Queer Women’s Coaching Goddess!!
ELIZABETH
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