Description
Manatee Lesbian Love & Connection Cards
A gentle deck to help you slow down, get curious, and choose with care.
These are the questions I wish I’d had in my pocket, and the ones I invite my coaching clients to engage with, prompts that soften the pace, and let intimacy unfold in a grounded, natural way.
They’re distilled from love’s lived-in wisdom (and a few spectacular missteps), my coaching practice and my work meeting weekly with hundreds of lesbian, queer women & nonbinary folx weekly at Conscious Girlfriend Academy.
Rooted in my Mom and Grandmothers’ gentle energy and heart-connected listening, this deck is a pocket compass for choosing with care and invites you to slow down, stay curious, and discover connections in dating, friendship, and community.
Like the gentle manatee, they invite a playful, unhurried pace: slow down, stay curious, and discover connection—in dating, friendship & community.
Created for lesbian, queer & nonbinary hearts—welcoming to all seeking deeper connection.
What it is
A full deck of 60 color coded cards containing 180 meaningful prompts, organized into 6 categories:
💛 First Encounters & Connection ❤️ Love & Past Relationships 💚 Self-Knowledge & Resilience 💗 Intimacy & Desire 💙 Dreams & Future Visions 💜 Community & Consciousness
Each card holds 3 layered prompts (Opener → Values → Vibe), designed to spark honest, unhurried conversations—on dates, with partners, friends, or solo.
Ways to use: Pull 1 (light spark) • Pull 3 (deeper dive) • Choose a category (themed flow)
A few sample prompts
- First Encounters: What words would you use to describe the kind of relationship you’re looking for?
- Love & Past Relationships: What’s the biggest lesson or gift you took from a past relationship?
- Self-Knowledge & Resilience: Which morning or evening rituals help you stay centered and grounded?
- Intimacy & Desire: Beyond chemistry, what matters just as much for you to feel connected?
- Dreams & Future Visions: Describe a Sunday with a partner that would feel just right.
- Community & Consciousness: When life gets really hard, who or what do you call for guidance?
Why the Manatee
Manatees float where it’s warm, graze where it nourishes, and huddle when waters turn cold. Their unhurried way reminds us not to rush love. This deck carries that spirit into dating, friendship, and community.
What People Are Saying
“I was nervous about group activities and meeting new people before going to a lesbian retreat, but spending time with the Manatee Love & Connection Cards beforehand helped ease that anxiety. Then while I was there, they offered a gentle, pressure-free way to connect, and I felt deeply supported.”
— Kasey
“I’ve used the Manatee Love & Connection Cards with a regular group of women I meet with, and they consistently spark meaningful conversation. The prompts move us beyond surface talk and invite thoughtful, deeper reflection.”
— Shirley
“My girlfriend and I use the cards on our date nights, and they’ve taken our conversations to deeper places. The Dreams & Future category especially has helped us explore both our similarities and differences in relationship vision.”
— Gina
“The cards arrived just when I needed to have an important conversation with someone I was dating. One question helped us uncover an incompatibility we hadn’t fully named. It saved us both time and allowed us to move forward with clarity — and even friendship.”
— Anonymous
“These cards have become valuable in so many areas of my life. I share them not only with people I date, but with my sisters, friends, and even my niece. They create a beautiful way to connect beyond the superficial.”
— Amy
“I received the cards and immediately loved them. I used them with friends who’ve been together for over 20 years, and the conversations that opened up were surprisingly rich and meaningful.”
— Cheryl
These are just a few of the ways the cards are being used — in circles, on date nights, at retreats, and in honest conversations that matter.
Cost & Shipping
- Price: $40 includes shipping within the U.S., and our friends in Canada receive the same flat-rate love — no extra shipping added.
Shipping: Orders normally ship USPS priority mail within 2 business days from Fort Lauderdale, FL. to United States and Canadian addresses. If you need an alternative international shipment, email directly at support@jensolincoaching.com.
Tiny FAQ
- Who is it for? Created specifically for lesbians, queer women & nonbinary folks—and great for anyone who resonates with a gentle, curious approach to connection.
- Is there a guide? A mini how-to is included inside.
- How many cards & questions are there? There are 180 carefully crafted prompts, 60 cards, 6 categories, with 3 questions on each card.
- Can I give this to somebody as a gift? Yes—add the recipient’s name + address in your payment note. We’re happy to send this to a loved one
- Do you ship internationally? Please contact us for international shipment requests: support@jensolincoaching.com.
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